The sure thing is that no one should be ashamed of who they love and who they are! There is nothing wrong about loving people of the same gender as you, or vacillating between being attracted to two genders, or more! You might be having doubts about your feelings.
So why is it still so difficult to come out of the proverbial closet? People who don’t belong in the LGBTQIA+ community might sometimes be grumpy about all of these new labels that keep sprouting up at all times, however, it is more important to be able to find something that describes how you feel about yourself than caring what other people think. You could indeed be gay or straight, however, sexuality is not binary, and it is not always rigid either! You could be bisexual, asexual, or perhaps be attracted to all genders! Not only teenagers can discover that they’re not as straight as they thought they might be. There have been massive changes in our society and understanding of sexuality in the past decade alone, that it’s natural for people to begin question their sexuality. I’m going on a rant on here because I have no one to talk to about this because I haven’t come out to anyone yet and I feel like I can talk about it on here because even if my friends and/or family see this for some reason, they will have no clue it’s me.A lot of people have undoubtedly thought of that question at some point in their lives, whether that was because of actual attraction or something society considered ‘gay’. My mum, dad, Aunties and Uncles are all like, “We love u for who u r and we will always love u,” but they r all regretting saying ‘yes’ to gay marriage in Australia and how the gays r taking advantage of the simple ‘yes’ voting and I’m sitting here like. OR be like “Yass nothings changed, ur still u and we’re fine with that”. Like, idk if my best friends (3 girls) r going to see me the same and act different around me and be all on edge if they make a certain joke and feel like they said something wrong or it’s awkward for them to be around me. As I said, I’m fine with it, but I have absolutely no clue on how my family and friends r going to react. I am the only one in my entire family that isn’t sexually attracted to the opposite?and I feel like I’m going to be the outsider. any my huge Greek (mums side) and Italian family (dad’s side). I am fine with that but it’s my parents I’m scared about telling. I have been confused about myself since I was like 11 and I have figured out that this ? is a lesbian.
Just be yourself and love whoever the hell you want, be whoever you want. I hope that in reading this you may find some comfort in yourself and see this whole sexuality thing is not worth the stress.
If you are taking this test because you're confused, I get it. Lets just say, we're human, we feel, we love, and it shouldn't matter who we date, who we ?, and who we marry. People are so confused in the LGBTQ+ BS Now that they made new stuff for people that like everything, themselves, harems and so on. I always thought that as a kid, and I'm starting to think that my child self was right, adults are dumb, people are dumb, what matters isn't what's between your legs or how one expects you to feel. How I feel now is that love has always been love no matter how you look at it.
So here is my statement: I don't care what?anyone sees me as or gives me, I don't care if I'm straight or not, what matters to me is how I feel. We all go around asking "what am I?" So we can find comfort in knowing that we have a place somewhere in this world. I took the test and it told me I was straight, well to be honest I'm not sure what I am and I don't think I honestly care anymore. However I can't see myself ever marrying the same?unless there were benefits let alone going all the way with said same ? I can do all of that with a guy no problem just as long as I actually like them and I have fixed my commitment issues. I have date maybe on or two girls in my past and I have also kissed them.